Ah well
Spent a very pleasant time walking and talking on a sunny Sunday afternoon with a very pretty East European beauty and a very silly black lab pup. Well, I finally got what I wanted which was time alone with the object of my affections. The down side is that it didn't go quite the way I'd hoped. What I really wanted was the green light to take things on, got an amber one instead.
We talked about this and that but we ended up going over past relationships, both good and bad, and it was clear that she's not over her ex just quite yet. Did make a move & kind of invited her out for a meal but she gently and sweetly brushed me off.
But she mentioned that her last relationship had grown out of a friendship, so it looks like I might be trying a long term project. If it happens great, if someone comes along in the mean time then cool, if its meant to happen it will.
No worries, just gotta keep tryin eh.
laters
We talked about this and that but we ended up going over past relationships, both good and bad, and it was clear that she's not over her ex just quite yet. Did make a move & kind of invited her out for a meal but she gently and sweetly brushed me off.
But she mentioned that her last relationship had grown out of a friendship, so it looks like I might be trying a long term project. If it happens great, if someone comes along in the mean time then cool, if its meant to happen it will.
No worries, just gotta keep tryin eh.
laters
posted by vincentblackshadow at Sunday, November 05, 2006
8 Comments:
Going slow is not bad and the best relationships come from what started as a friendship. Good luck.
I disagree with Les. Write her a poem and email it to her at home and work. Then, text message it to her. If that fails, write her a love song and call her to sing it to her. If she hangs up, sing it to her answering maching. Make a wav. file and email the song to her. Email her links to David's Bridal and babynames.com.
Women like to be chased.
Mist has a point but it's a fine line between a green light and a restraining order.
Sounds like she's a Rules girl...
Puss
Obviously, I have had zero luck in the relationship department, but all of the really lasting and happy relationships I've encountered have a strong friendship and genuine like for one another at their core.
I personally would have to like someone before I loved them, since passion can dim now and again as time goes on and the person beside you has to be more than just an object of lust.
That said, I'm sure surprising her with her favorite flower on a walk couldn't hurt your standing...
Um, there is a fine line between flattery and stalking. Do not cross it. What is one woman's flattery is another's stalking.
Thanks Dirk,
Seems you're the only one that gets the idea.
At the moment all I want is a friend, if that changes into something deeper then great, if not c'est la vie.
Worst comes to worst I still end up with a cool, interesting friend to have a drink and a laugh with.
You are so full of CRAP!!
How do you call someone the Object of Your Affection and then say "if I get a friend out of it, I'll be cool"????
I call BullShit.
Not that I don't talk around being totally head over heels for someone, I'm just saying, its nice for someone to call me on it so I don't kid myself ;)
AND - be nice with OofA... wins points for the drinking buddy and the bedroom buddy, whichever you're after this minute.
Oh, and the REASON I call BS is that you posted the SAME EVENT TWICE.
That means you CARE.
Just Say'n...
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